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Effy Loves Monday (Even when it’s Tuesday) ~ Where The Beloved Lives {w/VIDEO}

February 26, 2013

Thankfulness brings you to the place where the Beloved lives. – Rumi

I recently started a habit of posting daily gratitudes no my Facebook wall. Monday through Friday, I make a list full of simple delights, triumphs, happy-makers that I am feeling grateful for. Then, I hold space for the gratitudes of others by inviting folks to add their list to my thread.

This feels awesome to me. It feels like I’m entering a kind of river ~ a serene river that flows from our lips to the ears of the Divine.

“This is what we notice. This is what we love. This is what brings us joy.”

And though we might not intend for this to happen, it naturally follows that the Universe interprets this to mean:

“More of this, please!”

And more flows back.

At least, that’s been my experience.

I love this Rumi quote, and though I am not running The Rumi Project (the delectable Cary took over for me), I can see myself doing a spread that includes it. It touches a place in me that knows the truth about the divine. It reminds me that the divine (in us, out there, however you perceive it) has my best interest at heart. It tunes my frequency to what the divine might want for me (more of this, please!) and helps me to quiet the voices that have nasty things to say about what I might believe about what I deserve.

I want more of this, please. I want to find myself caught up in the current of the river of peace, wisdom, and grace that flows beneath the rushing torrent of ego, anxiety, and omgdoom.

Gratitude takes me there.

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My Week In Art

This week has been all about colour and doodles and lettering and pure, unadulterated fun.

Saturday

I took a class with Joanne Sharpe and immediately upon returning home from the workshop, I sat down to do some of the prescribed exercises in a fresh composition notebook. Joanne is all about designing your own fonts, which I love. I am always happiest when the majority of the elements in my work are *mine* and mine alone, so designing my own fonts = happy happy joy joy. Here are two that I’m really super happy with:

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Joanne’s teaching style is really accessible, so if you want some awesome tutelage in the art of artful lettering, she is definitely your woman!

Monday

On Monday, I recorded a video for all of y’all that plays off the prompt given by Rachel of A Year In The Life Of An Art Journal. The prompt was “Favourite Quote” so I made a messy, doodly background and used a quote from my son. He says, in reference to parenting, that “Love begets love. Struggle begets strength. If you’re trying you’re winning.”

I love that quote because it tells me that this kid knows we’re all human. These are, in my books, words to live by.

Here’s  A Photo

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I’m really seeing the influence of Flora Bowley and Joanne Sharpe in my art journaling these days and I am LOVING it.

Here’s Then {BONUS} Video!

Here’s the direct link

Wednesday

On Wednesday, I work on a spread that riffed off the quote “If you love what you do, you’ll never work another day in your life.” This is attributed to Confucius (whose name I *always* misspell!). This is why I’m all about gratitude this week because I *LOVE* what I do and most of the time, it doesn’t feel anything like work. It feels like a vocation, like a priesthood, like a pilgrimage.

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In this spread, I celebrated my work with an awesomely fun mixed media portrait on a totally raucous background. I chair danced through the whole thing.

Friday

Friday found me succumbing (after fighting it all week) to a bad cold, so I did a quick ‘wrap up’ spread in my Book Of Days. It was just text with a bit of flourish:

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Here’s what my ‘full spread’ for week nine in my Book Of Days looks like:

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Riotous F.U.N.

This is the point at which I would normally tell you more about what resources are rocking my socks and what books I’m reading, but to be honest, I am feeling pretty gross today so I’m going to skip it. I’m sitting here slathered in Vicks, doped up on Tylenol Cold Daytime, with a raw nose, chapped lips, and what feels like a ten pound brick on my chest.

I’ll see you next week with another post AND opening day for Book Of Days BOOT CAMP LIVE! 

xo

Effy

Effy Loves Monday ~ Full Circle

January 14, 2013

This Weeks Theme is “Circles”

A photograph I took last week inspired this week’s full spread. Remember this?

I printed it off and glued it down with Golden Matte Medium and let that be my focal image. The line (from my blog) “Behind every thing we take for granted, behind every so-called simple thing, there are miracles. There are mysteries. Like the star that appears when you slice an apple ‘the wrong way’, everything has secrets.” inspired the rest of the spread. There’s a photo below under “My Week In Art”.

Musings

This week was all about exploring all the ways I suck at friendship. I have never been ‘trained ‘in the ways of nurturing friendships and I’m really feeling that these days. I was talking to an acquaintance (who I hope will become a friend) about it, and I was telling her about my on line network. She said “You are rich in friendships. Those are all friendships. That’s real. You’re very lucky.”

And I did a double take. Yes, some of my connections via the Interwebs feel very real but I have had ample experience with things feeling real and then turning out not to be, or trusting and then realizing my trust was misplaced. Somewhere along the way, (the end of 2011, I think), I stopped trying. I stopped looking. I leaned hard on what I have with the manfingy and I insisted that it was enough.

Today, I’m wondering what would happen if I really nurtured those on line relationships that feel full of potential and juice to me. What would happen if I took them to the next level: snail mail and phone calls…planned visits…I got a postcard from someone I adore who has always been so mindful about keeping in touch with me. (Lis, you are gorgeous!) What if I did the same?

There is so much room in my life for learning more about friendship, and completely disregarding those connections I forge in this world of pixels and light would be foolish.

(Progress!)

This really feels like a full circle thing for me. Friendships were hard in my childhood and adolescence. And then friendships got easier in my late twenties. And then, in my thirties, I moved around a fair bit and completely lost touch with the art of making and keeping friends.

I’ve been settled here in Waterloo for almost a decade now. You’d think I would have done something about this whole friendship by now, but no. I have been hermity. The few forays I’ve made into that realm have not gone well, and I pretty much gave up.

I’m ready to try again. There are people out there who are good for me, right for me to have in my life, and I am coming to know that I need more than my relationship with the Manfingy to sustain me.

My Week In Art

Monday

Wednesday

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(To see me make these spreads live, I welcome you to join me for Book of Days Premium where I record video for you every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, and deliver it to you every single week!)

I didn’t do a lot of ‘non-BOD’ art this week since I was preparing for the big move from the dining room upstairs to my new art room/recording studio/ROOM OF MY OWN. (Pics/tour next week!) I did do a bit of collage for VisionQuest2013, though, and I was really surprised by what was coming up for me. (These are works in progress!)

Collage is something I keep telling myself I suck at, but I have to be honest! I really like these!

Your Week In Art!

I would love to see photos of what you got up to this week, and if you fancy playing along with me, your challenge this week is to use circles in an art journal spread . Bonus points if you overlap some and get the lovely geometric shape known as the vesica piscis. Join me in Wild Soul Arts to play along.

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Resources I’m Digging

I’m really loving this collection of planning sheets and to do lists that make being organized a little bit more fun.

VisionQuest2013 with Cat Caracelo is kicking my ass in all the most interesting ways. I actually *GASP* did some Soul Collage ™ this past weekend (it’s not finished, so I didn’t include it here), and that was really stretching my comfort zone. I am not sure if registration is still open, but I would recommend subscribing to her newsletter to find out what she’s doing next. She’s highly qualified and her classes are awesome.

Blogs I’m Loving

The Fluent Self:

“Remember that de-cobwebbing stirs up dust. And then you cough a lot.

Leona Lane:

I am totally in love with this sculptural ‘vision board’. I am sad that all the clothes hangers I have in the house are plastic, or I’d do something like it for my new studio/room of my own. (You’ll get a tour next week!)

Music I’m Listening To
(for some reason, YouTube and my blog aren’t playing nice today, so these are links to YouTube videos)

After All by Dar Williams

Ordinary Miracle By Sarah McLachlan

Cry Ophelia by Adam Cohen (Leonard Cohen’s baby boy!)

Books I’m Reading

I finished The Witching Hour and moved onto Lasher this week. This is my ‘before sleep’ book, and I read for about twenty or thirty minutes each night. You’ll probably see this here in this spot for a while.

Still working on research for something I’m planning for May of 2013. Other than that, there was very little time to read this week.

And that’s all she wrote for now.

xo

Effy

P.S. I’d love it if you’d come hang out with me in my on line arts community. It’s totes gratis, and I made it for you. xo

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I haven’t forgotten you, blog…

Dear Blog,

I haven’t forgotten you. This week has been absolutely jam-packed non-stop werky werk, and though you know how I love my work, I have to admit: I am feeling a little ack and eep and omgdooooom over how much I have to get done before September 1st.

You love me anyway, right?

So, I’ve not forgotten you…I’m just making videos and writing PDFs and making a metric butt tonne of art and ensuring that the experience my people have with me in the latter part of 2012 is the absolute best, juiciest, most amazing experience possible.

Blogging will resume on Sunday, with the third edition of SWOON.

Love,
Effy

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Lists & Other Musings

On Saturday, I noticed that I was riding the anxiety train straight to Hellsville. It was *intense* and I couldn’t put my finger on wtf was going on. I fired up 750words (which I *love*) and did some brain vomiting, and lo and behold! I figured it out! Freewriting for the win!

I have a lot on my plate. I’m teaching for Cosmic Cowgirls, BOD, Life Book, and Angel’s In My Studio. I have two interviews I’m supposed to be writing/video-ing for. I have laundry to put away. Dogs to care for. Personal art/writing stuff to do. Dishes piling up. A studio to finish preparing and decorating (my room of my own at long last!). Social plans to wrangle. Courses to participate in. Continue reading